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[yinepus_brat]

This is a subject that is not for children. So my younger friends - that means anyone under the 18 crowd by the way, please do not be viewing this. It is also most likely a topic that is not allowed at work, so again for-warned is forearmed, (foreheaded? forward? Forski...yea?).. or something like that.

In matters of performing the particular sexual act known as '69' can you actually continue to perform the lick/suck/slobber/GIVE GOOD BODY LUVVIN'S though-out the orgasm? I have been in a long and intense discussion with a friend of mine for over an hour,(get your minds OUT of the gutter, I am simply talking to someone who lives far, far away) deliberating the pros and cons.. and yes, Stopping so you can orgasm is a pro, and accidently nipping at your partner's genitalia (or having it nipped - OWIE) while being distracted by orgasm is most definitely a con.

Can you do it? Do you try? Do you stop? Is it THAT distracting? Do you prefer just straight oral sex, either you on your partner or vice versa to the '69' position? Inquiring minds WANT TO KNOW.

Comments

[dyandros.livejournal.com]

Generally speaking, I like to continue if I can handle it. Onyx (who is by far the person I partner with most often) generally can't manage to handle it if I do continue. She likes the happy place that she gets into, and there's a big Do Not Disturb sign over her... more or less... :D

[foxpuppy.livejournal.com]

Well, I CAN, but, really, why 69 in the first place? I prefer either to have my audience's full attention when I'm performing, or I prefer to relax and enjoy her skills.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

See, that's how I think too. I enjoy concentrating on giving pleasure, or getting it. I get.. distracted otherwise.

Besides, at my height? a 69 just isn't that comfy for me or my partner, most times.

[foxpuppy.livejournal.com]

Every now and again, the mood just strikes you and you can't just lay back and recieve. I know that happens to myself and my girl. Luckily, we keep handcuffs and silk ropes nearby for just those kinds of occasions.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Yes, yes this is true! *grin* Variety being the spice of life and all. If one happens to have a partner, and if one has handcuffs.

(<.< *says nothing NOTHING about having silk ropes, you hear?)

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

Handcuffs? *perk!*

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

I don't have handcuffs. *pouts* I have other things though!

Or should I be saying this on an open forum? Hmm.

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

That's ok. I've got enough pairs (in enough materials) for the both of us. ; )

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Yea but isn't it going to be kind of silly if we're BOTH handcuffed or tied down?

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

That just means neitehr of us can get away! ; )

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

*might do a pouncehug thing*

It's the stranger from Best Buy. Oh no, stranger.

I mean, hey, it's Willow.

[foxpuppy.livejournal.com]

Hee hee hee...howbeeit?

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

It beees. Srsly, I'm in NE and it's weird. Weirder than Louisville.

[foxpuppy.livejournal.com]

New England? North England? Nice Epidermis? Naughty Europe?

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

Nebraska. eeeeeew


I wanna be in Naughty Europe? Is that Victorian times?

[foxpuppy.livejournal.com]

Nebraska sounds like somewhere where you would keep a lot of loaves of bread.

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

Hahaha.

About it.

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

I hatehatehate 69. I truly do. And this from the wicked girl that plays so many games, right? I adore giving oral, not really all that big into receiving. So 69 for me sucks. No pun intended. I'd rather just be on my knees giving.

That said, I can do almost anything through orgasm as, >.>, I have a very easy trigger as well as having been trained to orgasm on command. Also, being nipped there isn't so bad, dammit.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

See, I have not yet had that kind of training! And most likely, never will. Because let's face it, hello barbarian amazon bitches don't normally come on command. They may fight on command, but generally don't come on command. It *grin* It rusts the armor you know.

And.. being nipped is ok, but it depends on HOW HARD you get nipped there that counts. *thinking Owie here, and not in a good way*

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

This was way back when with the abusive bastard but it's a handy bit of training. Not that it was hard with me, my trigger is very sensitive. Also, I am not getting into armor chaffing there. ;)

You're talking to the miswired girl, remember. ;) Though there are lines and means and reasons.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Yes, I don't like the teacher (grrrrs at him for you) But I do enjoy the concept of the class. Hrmmm.

No, no no no. You have all your wires straight. I checked before I .. ok. That would just come out WRONG. Therefore I am simply NOT going to say it at ALL.

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

But you're thinking it!

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

I AM, oh gods I AM!! ARRRGH *head thumps and slinks away to think evilish thoughts in TEH DARK

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

Why in the dark? You miss so many expressions that way.

Also, teehee at icons.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

*eyes shift left*

*eyes shift right*

Maaaybe one light. A little one. One the nightstand near the purple silk ropes.

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

Candlelight.

Two birds with one stone. Low temp, of course.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

...

...

Have I mentioned how much I adore you lately?

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

*chuckles*

Yes but I love hearing it, Sweets.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Then LET ME JUST SAY ONE MORE TIME, for the record


I. ADORE. YOU.

[molotovcoqtiz.livejournal.com]

And I you!

[fannyfae]

I personally like to concentrate on getting and giving pleasure orally. To me the actual "position" of 69 is distracting as hell. I'm trying to concentrate on giving great head, and I fully enjoy it almost as much as having my partner bring me to orgasm, seriously. Im not able to concentrate as well if we are both doing that at the same time. It just ends up being an knees and elbows fiasco! If someone moves suddenly, or comes before you do, it can be very distracting, for example. So for me...taking turns, so to speak, is much more effective. The actual position of 69, IMO is more like acrobatics that society says is somehow better and it really doesn't do that much for me.

[dyandros.livejournal.com]

This seems like as good a place as any to respond. Wow, I'm the only 69 fan here? O-kay. Well, firstly, I do appreciate doing the one-at-a-time approach... sometimes. However, both myself and any partner I go with tend to be highly empathic, and we can get into the most delicious feedback loops via 69... there's also the fact that it just gives us so much more energy to keep going! (also, the distraction factor can be a good thing... takes longer to orgasm!).

[dyandros.livejournal.com]

Side note: best 69 position I've found is on the side. Top/Bottom does lead to stamina issues and/or neck pain for person on bottom, indeed....

[fannyfae]

Precisely! Which is exactly why I guess I am not a fan of it, personally. Another thing is having gotten a knee in the nose once. After that I just said, "Ya know....I think after giving this 69 thing a fair chance, I have come to the conclusion, I'd just rather not..." ;-)

[jamileigh17.livejournal.com]

Personally, I'd find it too distracting. Granted, I don't mind being nipped... Rather enjoy it, actually. But that's a whole nother conversation entirely. I like watching the guy's face while I'm getting him to orgasm.

And hope you don't mind, I showed your icon to a friend and she fixed it so it's a bit easier to read. ;)

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Now THAT I like right there. Watching his face, hearing his moans and all those noises that guys make.. mmmm.. Can't really do that when his face is between my legs you know?

And THANK YOU! VERY MUCH AWESOME! *bounces around with new icon.. then goes to add it*

[jamileigh17.livejournal.com]

*laughs* All [info]Merryhellraiser 's fault. She noticed suggestion was misspelled... and decided to fix it. And fixed the rest of it while she was at it.
She rocks. :) One of my favorite friends.

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

I know it was and it bugged me EVERY TIME.. but I suck and do not know how to do icons, so I suffered with it.

*sighs happily and hugs her new icon tight*

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

Yes, yes, no, no, both, and you're just too tall to make it work (sorry). I think that covers all the questions, yes?

Now... bring on the handcuffs and rope (silk or otherwise)! : D

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

You can? You can? You are? WOW!

Yea, I know I am too tall. It's like that with most people actually.

And I don't have any handcuffs. I might be able to find some purple silk ropes.. but don't quote me.

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

Liek I said above... I have a selection to choose from. : )

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

TEASE!

I wanna see' em!

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

Show up down this way occassionally and ye might! ; )

[ursa-mater.livejournal.com]

Hey come on, I've been there what - twice in 6 months? Thats a bloody record for me!

What are you up to next week? If it doesn't snow that is.

[darkenna.livejournal.com]

The same thing we do every Commercialmas season, Pinky...

[barbieslave.livejournal.com]

Well you already know how I feel. It's practically impossible to give either the full attention they deserve, the position is uncomfortable on the neck for a start.

I do do it, because he wants me to, and I'm not the sort to argue with him, because I like being told what to do. But if I concentrate on pleasing him, I can't appreciate what he's giving to me. I shut off, so I don't even get anywhere near orgasm, unless I do a half assed job of orally pleasing him, and then what's the point?